The big first day of school! Carson started second grade and has Mr. Todd. I originally didn't want to consider having Carson skip a grade. The trend these days is to set your child up so he is on the older end of the class to give him that developmental advantage. It seems like no one skips grades anymore! And Carson loved his kindergarten year and did very well. He wasn't one of those really smart kids who gets in trouble because they're bored. (Carson takes following directions extremely seriously under all circumstances.) So, a couple of things helped us make our decision to let Carson skip first grade. One, I volunteered some in his classroom, and even though he had no complaints, it was obvious to me that he was a little out of place there. He's not only academically advanced, but he's socially and emotionally mature as well. His closest friends from church and the neighborhood are one or two years older than him. He had one pretty good friend in his kindergarten class, but I from my and his teacher's observations, the other kindergartners just seemed younger than him. Mrs. Guyer said she would occasionally make a joke or comment to the class that was way above a kids' level of understanding, and she would realize Carson was the only one laughing or who "got" what she was saying. The second, and biggest reason we felt so good about this change was an idea I had. Even if Carson skips a grade now, that doesn't mean he has to remain in this grade throughout his schooling. Being a military family, we'll definitely move at least a couple of times in the next decade. Between each move, we have lots of options. I could homeschool him for a year. We could send him abroad to have a global experience and language immersion. (We might all live abroad!) After a move, or a year of home schooling, we could put him back in his original grade so that in high school he's with his peers for sports and social events. (The plan is to have him taking college courses during his high school years anyway.) So basically, we felt like second grade was the absolute best place for Carson to be this year. He took a four-part first grade test this summer and scored in the 90s on each section. Passing was to score over 70 on some, 80 on the others. So it was a nice reassurance that he was really ok to skip first. We already knew his teacher, since he attended Mr. Todd's reading group last year, and he's awesome. I don't know if next year he'll do third grade at Scobee, or be home schooled, or whatever. But for now, this is great for him! |